hack: generate vtproto files for buildx

Integrates vtproto into buildx. The generated files dockerfile has been
modified to copy the buildkit equivalent file to ensure files are laid
out in the appropriate way for imports.

An import has also been included to change the grpc codec to the version
in buildkit that supports vtproto. This will allow buildx to utilize the
speed and memory improvements from that.

Also updates the gc control options for prune.

Signed-off-by: Jonathan A. Sternberg <jonathan.sternberg@docker.com>

vendor/github.com/moby/buildkit/client/llb/exec.go

@@ -12,7 +12,6 @@ import (
 	"github.com/moby/buildkit/util/system"
 	digest "github.com/opencontainers/go-digest"
 	"github.com/pkg/errors"
-	"google.golang.org/protobuf/proto"
 )
 
 func NewExecOp(base State, proxyEnv *ProxyEnv, readOnly bool, c Constraints) *ExecOp {
@@ -344,7 +343,7 @@ func (e *ExecOp) Marshal(ctx context.Context, c *Constraints) (digest.Digest, []
 			newInput := true
 
 			for i, inp2 := range pop.Inputs {
-				if proto.Equal(inp, inp2) {
+				if inp.EqualVT(inp2) {
 					inputIndex = pb.InputIndex(i)
 					newInput = false
 					break