protobuf: remove gogoproto

Removes gogo/protobuf from buildx and updates to a version of
moby/buildkit where gogo is removed.

This also changes how the proto files are generated. This is because
newer versions of protobuf are more strict about name conflicts. If two
files have the same name (even if they are relative paths) and are used
in different protoc commands, they'll conflict in the registry.

Since protobuf file generation doesn't work very well with
`paths=source_relative`, this removes the `go:generate` expression and
just relies on the dockerfile to perform the generation.

Signed-off-by: Jonathan A. Sternberg <jonathan.sternberg@docker.com>

vendor/google.golang.org/protobuf/proto/decode.go

@@ -51,6 +51,8 @@ type UnmarshalOptions struct {
 
 // Unmarshal parses the wire-format message in b and places the result in m.
 // The provided message must be mutable (e.g., a non-nil pointer to a message).
+//
+// See the [UnmarshalOptions] type if you need more control.
 func Unmarshal(b []byte, m Message) error {
 	_, err := UnmarshalOptions{RecursionLimit: protowire.DefaultRecursionLimit}.unmarshal(b, m.ProtoReflect())
 	return err