migrate to github.com/distribution/reference v0.5.0

The "reference" package was moved to a separate module, which was extracted
from b9b19409cf

Also update compose-go, which also switched to distribution/reference;

full diff: https://github.com/compose-spec/compose-go/compare/v1.18.3...v1.18.4

Signed-off-by: Sebastiaan van Stijn <github@gone.nl>

vendor/github.com/distribution/reference/.golangci.yml

@@ -0,0 +1,18 @@
+linters:
+  enable:
+    - bodyclose
+    - dupword # Checks for duplicate words in the source code
+    - gofmt
+    - goimports
+    - ineffassign
+    - misspell
+    - revive
+    - staticcheck
+    - unconvert
+    - unused
+    - vet
+  disable:
+    - errcheck
+
+run:
+  deadline: 2m